A couple of weeks ago, I came across a Reddit post asking a question I see all the time:
It sounds like a simple question, but choosing the right wedding photographer can feel overwhelming. There are SO many photographers out there, and when you read through the advice online, people usually talk about editing style, pricing, packages, experience, and portfolios.
All of those things matter.
But I think there is one HUGE part that couples sometimes forget.
You Are Inviting a Stranger Into One of the Most Personal Days of Your Life
Your wedding photographer is not just someone who shows up, takes pretty pictures, and leaves.
Think about how much time you will actually spend together.
Your photographer may be there while you are getting ready. They will meet your parents, grandparents, siblings, wedding party, and closest friends. They will be standing nearby during emotional conversations, nervous moments, huge hugs, happy tears, and everything else happening throughout the day.
For a documentary wedding photographer, being close to those moments is especially important. I need people to feel comfortable enough to forget about my camera and continue living the day.
That is why I always tell couples to get to know the person behind the photographs.
Look Beyond the Wedding Photography Portfolio
Yes, look through their portfolio.
Yes, make sure you LOVE their photography style.
Yes, ask about their experience and what is included in their wedding photography coverage.
But talk to them too.
Ask yourself:
Do I enjoy talking to this person?
Do I feel comfortable around them?
Can I imagine spending eight, ten, or twelve hours with them?
Would my family feel relaxed around them?
Do I trust them to be around during some of the most emotional moments of my wedding?
These questions matter, especially if you are looking for documentary wedding photography or a wedding photojournalist who will spend the day observing your relationships and capturing moments as they naturally happen.
If someone feels awkward, pushy, or uncomfortable during your consultation, that feeling probably will not suddenly disappear on your wedding day.
And when someone is going to be beside you for most of the day, their energy matters. A LOT.
Schedule a Call Before Choosing Your Wedding Photographer
This is why I encourage couples to schedule a consultation before booking a wedding photographer.
Not because I want to sell you.
I genuinely want you to find someone who is right for you, whether that photographer is me or someone else.
The best wedding photographer for you should create work you love, but they should also be someone you trust enough to invite into your world.
As a wedding photojournalist and documentary photographer, I believe that trust is a huge part of creating honest photographs. When you and the people around you feel comfortable, you can stay present and let the day happen without constantly thinking about the camera.
Your wedding photos matter.
But so does the person standing behind the camera. ❤️
Looking for a Documentary Wedding Photographer?
If you are searching for a Los Angeles documentary wedding photographer who cares about your people, your relationships, and how your wedding actually unfolds, I would love to get to know you.
Let’s talk about your wedding, your people, and what you want to remember years from now.
